"She's a little garbage picker, she takes after you"
Excuse me, you better sleep with one eye open.





I have come to a frightening conclusion,
I am the decisive element in the classroom.
It is my personal approach that creates the climate.
It is my daily mood that makes the weather.
As a teacher I possess tremendous power
to make a child's life miserable or joyous.
I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration.
I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal.
In all situations it is my response that decides whether
a crisis will be escalated or de-escalated, and a child humanized
or dehumanized.
-Haim Ginott
Teacher and Child
Quoted in
The First Days of School





I noticed Christian's blue pinstripe suit folded on my dresser. That is where I lay out the children's clothing for co-op and church. I asked Christian hesitantly but trying to sound casual "Are you wearing your suit to co-op tomorrow?". Christian smiled and excited said "No, I picked it out to wear on my date with Dad when we go to McDonald's and the book store".
I was humbled to think how it is the small things that mean so much.








I had already been out in the frigid weather 3 times today and slipped and fell once. I didn't want to say "yes" to Gilli's request to go ice skating. I tried to stall, add requirements, all the mom avoidance tricks I knew but she was meeting every goal. Foiled again.
I took all 5 children to an outdoor tennis court that was flooded for ice skating. It was 24*. I pulled up next to the court so I could watch them from the warmth of the car with Sophia. As I watched them ice skate around I was so happy that we went. My eyes were brimmed with tears. They skated with all their might. They threw themselves into the ice with all their hearts. Gilli practiced her turns she learned in her lessons. They looked out for each other and helped each other. I was sure to praise their little heads off. It wouldn't be a good time if someone (not including the baby) didn't poop their pants and someone else pee theirs. Neither one was me so that was good.


Still no camera so here you have Oprah touring a typical Danish house.
Very inspiring, I think I need to go donate more stuff.
http://www.oprah.com/media/20091021-tows-stine-home-tour

